The pandemic has changed the dating game and according to one dating expert, it’s made singletons pickier about potential partners. British relationship expert Tina Wilson says single folks are now more worried than ever about “pink flags.” These are things that could lead to red flags, which are warning signs of trouble in the romance. Wilson explains the pink flags to watch out for and the red flags that could follow.
You don’t take pictures together:
- Pink flag- Either you don’t take photos as a couple or you’re the only one taking them. Check their social media to see what they post and if there’s any evidence of you.
- Red flag- Your partner’s Instagram is flooded with photos, but you’re nowhere to be seen. Tina says this would show they don’t want people to know about you and advises moving on fast.
Are you being cookie-jarred?
- “Cookie jarring” happens when you’re not their only option and they’re keeping you around while they decide if you’re “the one.”
Pink flag- Everything’s going well, but you haven’t had “the talk” to define the relationship and you wonder if they’re holding back.
- Red flag- You find out they are seeing other people, that you’re basically “one of the cookies” in the jar and they’re keeping their options open. Tina advises knowing your worth and not being “an extra.”
You’re being “love bombed” with gifts and affection:
- Pink flag- Your new partner is coming on strong and showering you with attention and presents, but you wonder if it’s too much too soon.
- Red flag- After love bombing you, they ghost you for a bit, then come back with more gifts and attention. Tina suggests taking a step back and being cautious about their intentions.
Most of your dates involve watching TV:
- Pink flag- Sure, it can be romantic to cuddle on the couch and watch a show, but you’re overdoing it with Netflix binges and they’re not showing much interest in you.
- Red flag- When you do actually go out on a date, the only thing you have to talk about is the shows you’re watching. Not having any shared interests can be a sign of a relationship disaster, Tina warns.
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