Relationships are work that should be equally invested in by both parties. Just because you are in a relationship doesn't mean you need to lose your sense of individuality. Personal space is important in a healthy partnership. Sometimes we lose our sense of self or let our significant others push our limits. Don't let anyone take control of you and your choices.
Here are a few things that you should never change for someone else!
There is a saying "once a cheater always a cheater." If someone cannot appreciate and respect you and your relationship with them that is a big red flag. You should not to take them back but if you do don't be shocked if they do it again.
If your significant other asks for your passwords for your email and social media accounts you do not have to give them out. Trust is a must in a good relationship and if they want to be snooping around that is a sign that they do not trust you.
Sex should not be used as a reward or as a weapon. It is also not the way to go about forming a healthy relationship. You should never be baited into having intercourse with someone, especially by your spouse.
Don't go spending money you do not have just to impress or please the other person. They should be able to respect how responsible you are when in comes to finances instead of trying to coerce you into buying something for them.
We all have our own fashion style. You don't have to dress the way someone else wants. Make sure you stay true to who you are and what you like.
A true partner in life will stand behind you and your dreams. Someone who puts your ideas down and doesn't believe in you is not the kind of support you want in a relationship.
Someone who cares about you will not try and pressure you into doing something that is bad for you. People who try to push you to do things that are destructive do not care about your well-being.
Stay away from toxic people. We all have our own insecurities and there is no reason to surround yourself with people who make you feel bad about yourself. Friends and a good spouse will want to lift you up not tear you down.
A huge red flag is when they keep you isolated from friends and family. It is nice to have someone that wants to spend all their time with you but they should not be restricting you from seeing others. This is a sign of a controlling person. A healthy partner will be encouraging of you keeping a bond with those special people in your life rather than keep you from them.
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