Dating is an adventure especially when you are trying to find "the one." Amy Nobile, dating coach, thinks she can provide some assistance. She is sharing her "foolproof method" with us for FREE! This way you can weed out the duds. She says singles can find their ideal match as long as they use her "3-4 rule." She says you must learn 4 key principles about your partner.
Chemistry is important. You know when you have a connection with someone immediately. They give you butterflies or even just put a smile on your face.
What are their core values? Talk about family planning, career goals, religion and other lifestyle choices like being vegetarian. Knowing and understanding what their morals and values are you can help you decide if you want to continue a relationship with them or not.
Emotional maturity is principle that many people are now looking for in a partner. Do they know how to communicate their feelings? Are they even emotionally available to be in a relationship at this time?
Are they ready for a relationship or are they looking for something casual? You don't want to fall for someone who is not ready to be settled down.
Look at the bigger picture and don't just focus on the sparks you might have. This way you can weed out someone who is not looking for the same things in a relationship that you are.
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If you are single, by going on three dates you can reveal the answers to these key questions.
When you are on dates one and two, you should be asking questions about their career and previous relationships. Ask specific questions to as to what kind of relationship they are looking for and what goals they have set for themselves for their career. It is a great time to find out about their long-term life goals as well.
On the third date you should be talking about family and deal breakers. Dive deep into relationship specific deal breakers, marriage and family plans. Plus, find out what style of communication they use.
If by the end of date three, your date doesn't check all four boxes Nobile says "It's a sign they aren't your person."
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